The Northern European culture of binge drinking can lead to uncomfortable situations for students from parts of the world where alcohol plays a smaller role in social events.
Zhichao Xue, a Chinese student of Human Biology tasted her first beer and wine at a party in Copenhagen. She found that it was hard to say no.
»They were my new classmates and I felt there was some pressure to drink in a gathering with so many Danes. I could not say no,« she explains.
Indian student, Raju Podduturi, also feels that it is tempting to drink occasionally.
»I don’t drink by choice. But in future if the situation demands, I might be open to it.,« says Raju, who studies at the Faculty of Life Sciences.
In India, the drinking culture is not as ‘in your face’ as in Europe and many students like Raju, refrain from drinking.
But despite social pressure to drink when in Denmark, it is possible to abstain, says Abdul Gafar, a student from Pakistan.
Abdul does not drink, as he practices Islam, which forbids alcohol. He feels that there is no coercion at all to grab a beer at social gatherings.
»For me, there has never been a problem with alcohol here. People respect my beliefs. During parties, I just substitute alcohol with coke or water,« he explains.
But even Abdul has sometimes come under scrutiny for abstaining, from curious Europeans. He has been asked »question after question,« he says. Usually he tries to bring the conversation to an end quickly, because he fears it might lead to an »argument about beliefs.«
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Drinking is not a requisite for having fun. My best time in Copenhagen did not involve a single sip of alcohol! I wish I had more non-alcoholic adventures with my friends in retrospect. :)
Interestingly, the Danish people that I got to have interesting conversation with are moderate or non-drinkers. :)
Those who go full-out are International Students, don't feel pressured at all! To me, true friendships blossom without alcohol at least that was my experience in København. ^^
As a Danish woman who never have been drinking a lot of alcohol and for example don't like beer, I just want to tell all the exchange students who feel a peer pressure to drink: If you don't feel like it, don't do it! It's quite simple. As a grown up, one has to be able to judge for one self and to search out some better friends, if the ones around you are a**holes. There always will be people who don't want to accept your choices, beliefs, tastes or whatever. Their dislike might hurt a little but the only important thing in your life is to be true to yourself - so, be that!
.... and don't blame other people for your own choices of life ;)
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